Unlike Personal Fitness Training, Golf, Tennis, Karate
or other athletic hobbies, Ballroom Dancing is an intimate and personal
endeavor that almost always involves touching/holding another person.
I believe that it is because of this, that many people never attempt to
take lessons or pursue it even though it appeals to them on every
level. There is just something about partner dancing that makes us
vulnerable and therefore reluctant to face embarassment.
These
issues prevent many people from learning Ballroom Dancing because they
are afraid to appear clumsy, or inadequate. All of this can be
overcome by the right Instructor. A good Ballroom Instructor will have
the latest and most comprehensive knowledge of all the dances, but most
importantly will have the psychological skills to deliver the
information in a fun, non-threatening way.
Not everyone is born
with certain talent and rythmic ability, but learning a few Ballroom
steps can improve an existing or developing relationship, no matter
what level of ability one posseses. Learning the proper hold
(connection) with your partner can be very rewarding (both on and off
the dancefloor!). Every person started Ballroom Dancing from the
beginning, and Instructors expect students to struggle at first, but
then a gradual sense of accomplishment, confidence and joy soon
emerges, and the student is hooked!
Starting your Ballroom
experience with the right Instructor is essential to making a fair
evaluation of Ballroom Dancing as a future hobby. I am of the opinion
that everyone can have fun Ballroom Dancing when it is approached in
the most positive and encouraging way.